One Word Resolution: Enough!

I say this every year… I love New Years! It’s one of my favorite holidays. I love the fresh start of a new year. I love the night of fun before. I love that there is one more holiday after Christmas (and before the grind begins again) that doesn’t involve me having to buy anything […]

“Jesus Feminist” by Sarah Bessey

Sat down and read “Jesus Feminist” by Sarah Bessey in one sitting tonight. My main take-aways are as follows: 1. I think so many people would be surprised to find the soft voice of this lovely lady behind the title of “Jesus Feminist”. The title is stirring and I imagine so many will ignore or […]

The Gifts of Imperfection: Week 3–Saturday

This week was all about letting go of perfection…ugh! “Perfectionism is a self-desctructive and addictive belief system that fuels this primary thought: If I look perfect, live perfectly, and do everything perfectly, I can avoid or minimize the painful feelings of shame, judgement and blame.” –Dr. Brene Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection page 57 Perfectionism […]

The Gifts of Imperfection: Week 2, Saturday

Note: I wrote part of this post yesterday (Saturday) and finished it today (Sunday) This week we worked on cultivating authenticity and used an exercise where we had to pick a picture of ourself where we feel our true essence shines through. We then had to answer a few sentences about the version of ourselves […]

The Gifts of Imperfection–Week 2, Sunday

  au·then·tic  adjective ə-ˈthen-tik, ȯ- : real or genuine : not copied or false : true and accurate Week two of “The Gifts of Imperfection” course by Dr. Brene Brown is all about Authenticity. People who know me know that authenticity and integrity are big deals for me. I believe strongly in not wearing a mask, in […]

The Gifts of Imperfection–Week 1, Saturday

Here’s what is truly at the heart of wholeheartedness: Worthy now, not if, not when, we’re worthy of love and belonging now. Right this minute. As is.– Dr. Brene Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection Now. As is. Right this minute. Worthy now, as is, and right this minute. Whoosh <head spinning> Do I believe this […]

The Gifts of Imperfection–Week 1, Tuesday

“The Wholehearted journey is not the path of least resistance. It’s a path of consciousness and choice. And, to be honest, it’s a little counterculture. The willingness to tell our stories, feel the pain of others, and stay genuinely connected in this disconnected world is not something we can do halfheartedly.” — Dr. Brene Brown, […]

The Gifts of Imperfection–Week 1 Monday

I paid for this course weeks ago. Dusted off my copy of “The Gifts of Imperfection” by Brene Brown that I had read, marked up, and was moved by earlier this year. My art supplies (required class materials) are sitting waiting to be used. Then I had that moment… The “whatifthisdoesn’tchangeanythingandistaystuckinmyfear” moment. I wish this […]

Oh that’s what that is!

Several times last week and this week…including today…I’ve had these moments where my stomach starts to hurt out of nowhere. I wouldn’t exactly describe it as pain. It’s the dull ache. It’s a feeling that seems to dissipate when I’m distracted but come back with a vengeance when I’m thinking. Drinking water doesn’t help. Eating […]

I think he meant Woman…

If If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you; If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too: If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or, being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or […]