Hmmm…these days I generally can ask for what I need. But this question makes me think of my need to ask for consideration. I have learned with time to ask for help, but I want to ask for others to be considerate of where I am and what I’m going through. I think what that looks like is witholding judgement of my movements or decisions and instead asking me how I am. The question “What do you need…” still sticks in my chest when someone asks me and I want it to be easy to be asked of me and easy to respond to.