Some of the labels I use to talk about myself are: kind, ambitious, aggressive, generous, woman, leader, sister, aunt, friend, difficult, independant, boundaried.
I used to really hit myself hard with mean words. My inner critic was a real piece of work and needed an attitude adjustment. Across time I feel like I’ve got a lot more centered and loving towards myself. I can see and know my good qualities, but am also aware of the places where I either need growth OR more likely will never change. 🙂
Honesty with ourselves about ourselves is good. Honesty with a lot of grace is essential.